It is one thing to highlight is the need of friendship in school or work place. A simple need to feel fitted in a atmosphere.
But as we grow older, friends get less as we become more busy or even more choosy. In my current work place which I joined in 2007, I was pretty a lone trying my best maybe in loneliness, I become close to a new friend named A. Some one out of the blue advised me to be careful of A. I did not think much since A was nice and friendly.
After 6 years, one fine day, I saw her true colours of biting me calling me names that was uncalled for in defense of her buddies of same colour. Bom exploded like a tsunami hit me right in the face.I knew that at that very moment who were my friends and who was the not. Her friends confronted me two days in a row. On the first day, I broke down in my working place. I was really hurt. The next day, the pack of wolves came at me again. I felt so bullied since I was more than 10 years older.I was much calmed now . The SHE wolf said really unpleasant words. I gave her a weak smile.
The showdown became the talk of my working place. Suddenly, I became the villian of the drama. But the real drama queen was A adding fire to the pack of wolves feeding them poison abt my secret which I shared with her in lonely times.
While on a holiday away, they gossiped abt me from head to tail. Of course, I knew cause when I came back, my friends were more than happy to share the yummy gossip. All I could say was God do exist and mind your karma.
Conclusion:
a) Be wise in choices of friends.
b) In the darkest moment, be careful what you share for one day it might bite you so hard.
c) Bullying do happen but for ladies, the words are MOST TOXIC>
d) A and I are so over. I cannot bear to see her face. Of course, I was too naive in 2007, A taught me a good lesson. Keep your friends close but your enemy closer.
Finally, a blog post about this. Cheer up, she doesn't deserve your attention and your friendship. Same goes as the man who left you. They both don't deserve you. No one can see the beauty 'we' see in you. Be happy, life is too short to go wasting on people who don't deserve you. Keep your head up. :) Smile.
ReplyDeleteThanks Mi Shie. I appreciate your support.
ReplyDeleteAm always here to keep stalking you, to keep supporting, that's the least I could do. :) By the way, keep smiling and act like you don't care. They'll be bored, maybe we should have an intervention against them! :D
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